When to tell?

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Registered: 06-06-2013
When to tell?
Sun, 06-09-2013 - 10:06am

Has everyone made the announcement to their friends/families yet?

 If not, when will you?

 My man and I decided not to tell anyone until week 12, just in case.  Which is part of why I'm happy to be here...because I can't tell anyone else for another 5/12 weeks, not even my other kids...it's weird to be super excited and not able to discuss the reason for your happiness.  Soon enough I suppose.

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Registered: 05-07-2013
Wed, 06-12-2013 - 3:30pm

I couldn't keep my mouth closed so all of my close family/friends know.  Feel free to celebrate with us here!  I would have the hardest time ever keeping my mouth closed! 

Jenni ~ Expecting baby #2 in January 2014! 

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Registered: 11-28-2011
Thu, 06-13-2013 - 3:00pm
Since our closest friends and family knew we were doing IVF, we couldn't really help but to tell them the good news. A few people at work know, mostly because I'm a nurse and there's a lot of heavy lifting and physical things I do. So it helps that they look out for me and remind me to take it easy. 12 weeks does seem so far away!! I have about 4.5 wks to go.

Mary (32) DH (33) - TTC#1 since Feb '10 DOR, FSH 13, AMH low, AFC <4. HSG all clear. SA good. IUI's #1, #2, #3 Dec'11, Feb'12, Apr'12 - all BFN.  Mini-IVF#1 BFP! Beta #1-104, Beta #2-244

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Registered: 08-20-2008
Fri, 06-14-2013 - 8:21pm

We won't tell anyone until between 12 and 14 weeks.  We lost a sweet baby a few years ago at about 12 weeks with a missed miscarriage.  We were outed on Facebook and in real life, and then I had to go and unannouce.  Which was horrible.  Except this time, everyone is telling other people, which is really irritating me.

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