We use a Nuk pacifier. Mainly to sleep or when she's crabby. It often falls out while sleeping, but the initial bit is enough to keep her asleep.
We also use the NUK pacifier. We started giving it to him because I noticed him sucking on his fingers. He uses it a lot.. more then I had hoped he would but I feel like it's mean to take it away from him since it soothes him so much. He also still spits it out but gets mad until I give it back to him. I don't mind doing it but I feel so bad when I'm driving and cant help him with it.