Most of you already know I've had 2 c sections.
I'm sorry you are going through this, but I wanted to say i am really glad you are going and getting a second opinon! A lot of VBAC rules have to do with hospital policies, even though like you said ACOG is for them! I have heard stories of women driving hours to have a VBAC because no hospital near them would allow it, even though they had a successful VBAC before! Its very easy to get sucked into a midwife because they are more relaxed and should be more open to natural options. Unforunatly I sort of had a similar thing happen to me with DS and only afterwards when I told people my story of having a c-section I heard tons and tons of negative comments about the midwives I had used! I was shocked as I had done research online and only come across great reviews!