Goodbye

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Registered: 09-08-2005
Goodbye
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Thu, 10-13-2011 - 2:42pm

I went today for the recheck U/S and there was an empty sack. We will let nature works thing out. I dont know how to explain my 5 year old that there is no baby now.

Thank you

Norma

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Registered: 08-02-2006
In reply to: nkusho
Thu, 10-13-2011 - 3:59pm

I am so terribly sorry.

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In reply to: nkusho
Thu, 10-13-2011 - 4:00pm
I am so sorry! :(

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In reply to: nkusho
Thu, 10-13-2011 - 6:08pm

I am so sorry to hear this :(

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Registered: 09-08-2011
In reply to: nkusho
Thu, 10-13-2011 - 6:24pm

Oh God, not you too. This sucks. So sorry you have to go through this. I'm pretty angry about going through it myself. I went back to the TTC board, lots of those ladies have been through losses, and we'll be trying again soon. I wish you luck if/when you decide to try again.

As for how to tell the 5 year old, keep it simple and follow it up with an activity to occupy their mind (video game, favorite movie, etc.). This is how I'm handling it. Not sure if it helps, though, not much helps. It's just the only way I could get through the conversations without crying. I told my daughter (10) last night that the baby just wasn't growing. She was more concerned that something was wrong with my health to cause it. She's relieved that I'm healthy, she's heard whispers about bloodwork and was concerned I had something worse going

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Madelyn, February 26, 2001
Aaron, January 2, 2005
Baby #3, October 2, 2012

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Registered: 02-02-2008
In reply to: nkusho
Thu, 10-13-2011 - 7:39pm
I'm so sorry

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Registered: 05-08-2009
In reply to: nkusho
Thu, 10-13-2011 - 8:16pm

I'm so very sorry. T&P for you and your family.

Lee, Mommy to DD Noelle born January 2010. BFP in February 2011, lost pregnancy at 10 weeks in April 2011. BFP in August 2011, hopeful and happy to be expecting our baby due May 9, 2012.

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Registered: 06-22-2010
In reply to: nkusho
Thu, 10-13-2011 - 10:28pm

I'm so sorry for your loss.

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Registered: 09-27-2011
In reply to: nkusho
Fri, 10-14-2011 - 12:36am
I'm so sorry. :(
Jen, momma to 3 DDs, 1 DS, and 2 StepDDs - expecting our 7th! having a baby
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Registered: 06-18-2003
In reply to: nkusho
Fri, 10-14-2011 - 6:32pm
So sorry to hear that. Healing thoughts for you and your family.

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