Husband not happy

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Husband not happy
Mon, 09-05-2011 - 1:04pm

Well here we go again. This will be baby number 3 for us and I just broke the news to dh. He is not speaking to me right now. I feel pretty alone right now and was just hoping for....I dont know really. My h has made many comments in the past that he finds pg and pg women disgusting so that is where I am headed for the next 9 monthes mix that with hormones and I just am not sure that I'm gonna come out of this pg still married. Our kids are 15 and 7 so I guess we just do the whole 8 years apart thing. We are only in our early 30's so it's not like life is over but I know I am in line for a LOT of changes. Looks like at this point you ladies are all I got so I look forward to getting to know you all.



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Mon, 09-05-2011 - 3:29pm

(((BIG HUG))) and Congratulations!!!

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Mon, 09-05-2011 - 8:14pm
I was so there with my 3rd. DH didn't really speak to me for 6 weeks. I finally had to tell him that he needed to grow up and accept his reality. Of course, now our DD is 2 1/2 and I think she's his favorite! ;)

Of course, now I have to surprise him with news of #4 (!!!!) So we'll see how that goes.....

Kelly Mom to: DD 10/00 DS 7/05 DD 10/08 Angel 10/11 #4 EDD - late Sept
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Mon, 09-05-2011 - 11:28pm
Congrats on baby #3! I'm so sorry Dh isn't on board, hope he comes around ((hugs))

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Tue, 09-06-2011 - 9:22am
It takes 2 to make a baby, so he should be just as mad at himself and not be taking it out on you!

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Wed, 09-07-2011 - 10:49am

Were you trying to get pregnant or was this a complete surprise to your husband?

Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

.  -Albert Einstein

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Wed, 09-07-2011 - 7:45pm

To ItChick.... No we were not trying at all! As for him being disgusted with pg, I don't know why, Im not sure he really knows why.And for communication, I would say we have great communication or we wouldnt have been married as long as we have.

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Wed, 09-07-2011 - 10:33pm
I'm glad to hear he started talking to you again and that he was mad at himself. It does take two and it's good to hear that he seems to be coming around. Let us know how thing progress!
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Mon, 09-26-2011 - 12:55pm
I'm glad to hear he came around:)
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Mon, 09-26-2011 - 7:51pm

So is DH feeling better about things? Are you guys able to celebrate or are things still a little mixed?