God's plan is sometimes hard to take.

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God's plan is sometimes hard to take.
Thu, 04-26-2012 - 2:07pm

Went for my first appointment today, I should have been 9wks 2 days but there was only a fetal pole measuring 6 wks. No heartbeat and lots of blood behind the fetal pole. Pregnancy not viable...broke my heart, but I know God has a plan. <3

It was totally unexpected as I haven't spotted at all. Waiting one week to see if I miscarry on my own or have to get a D & C. Best of luck to all of you with your babies...I know I'll be back in an expecting club, just not sure when, but now was not my time.

Jenifer: Momma to:

Jaron age 21 yrs~ Jayt age 19yrs~ Joely age 14yrs ~Cash age 3 yrs ~ Hank age 9 months and two angel babies <

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Thu, 04-26-2012 - 3:09pm
(((hugs))) You have a stellar attitude. I hope you heal up soon, Momma!

Jules - Happily married and Momma to DS, DD and expecting our Caboose Baby 11/24/2012

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Thu, 04-26-2012 - 4:18pm
(((Hugs))) I agree completely, sometimes I wish I knew the plan so that things would make sense! Dig in to your faith it will help you heal and find peace. I have always taken comfort in the knowledge that god only challenges us with the things that we can handle (with his help of course).

Take care and best wishes for the future.
Proud Mom to Annika (4), Jamie (3), and 4 angels. Anxiously awaiting Baby #3!
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Thu, 04-26-2012 - 5:39pm
I am very sorry to hear... Hugs and Prayers
-Niomi Proud Mommy of Isaiah (5), Alexandria (3) and Expecting 11/2/2012 pregnancy
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Fri, 04-27-2012 - 8:55pm
I'm so sorry for your loss. It's definitely not easy, but it sounds like you are strong in your faith, and that will help you get through this. Praying for an easy recovery for you, both physically and emotionally.

--Heather-- proud mommy to five amazing kids and one more on the way!!