I'm out (loss mentioned)

Well ladies, I'm out.  We went in on Friday for an early anatomy scan at 16 weeks due to something they saw with the baby's kidneys that they wanted to check on.  At the ultrasound we found out that the baby's heart had stopped beating.  I had a D&E yesterday.  Right now we are planning to take some time off of TTC, see a grief counselor and do some genetic testing.  We did find out that I have a MTHFR gene mutation, but we don't know for sure if it caused both of these losses.