So, I guess this could be borderline TMI.
Me too! I know that it is completly irrational but i can't get my head past it yet - at +11 weeks preg it has been a LONG time. For me it is the knowledge that semen - or more accurately the prostglandins in it - can soften the cervix that holds me back. I'll let go of my irrational fear soon; the danger zone for early pregnancy is done
Glad I'm not alone!!
I have this fear as well, so don't worry you are not alone.
This is definitely TMI: Last night was the first time since I ovulated (yes it had been almost 2 months) we had sex and I was terrified afterward that I would start bleeding. I am personally never in the mood after ovulation and the progesterone in pregnancy is making it 10times worse. Last night was the first night that I was not sick or gassy or hormonally going crazy (I go from being fine to crying over the kitchen being a mess in 5 seconds) and I was starting to feel like a normal person again. My DH started with a foot massage,then did my back, and went from there... He was always asking me if I wanted to stop but it was the first time I was even in the mood in 2 months so I let him keep going.