How Do You Deal With New Mom Pressure?

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How Do You Deal With New Mom Pressure?
Wed, 03-13-2013 - 10:11am

Of course, there’s always been competition. Put ten mothers and their babies in a room together and inevitably the comparisons will start. Whose baby is rolling already — which baby is smiling or gurgling?

But back in the day, you could leave that room and those comments and comparisons behind. Now there are millions of websites (some dangerously inaccurate, unscientific and ill-informed) telling you what your baby is failing to achieve.

When I became a young mother, the only activity to do with a baby was to put it in a pram and go for a walk. Now there’s every class imaginable — each promising to enrich your baby’s experiences and even expand their intellect.

There’s baby gymnastics, baby music classes, baby yoga, baby massage, baby swimming, baby dance, baby pottery, baby cinema and baby sign language.

The pressure any new mother faces is enormous.

How have you felt since baby arrived?  Are you already feeling pressure about baby's milestones? How do you keep out all the voices telling you what you should/shouldn't be doing with/for baby?

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