How are you doing today?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-11-2006
How are you doing today?
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Thu, 10-14-2010 - 11:47am

Hey there girls. I hope that you are having a good day, but if you aren't, IT IS OKAY!

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-11-2006
Thu, 10-14-2010 - 3:29pm

Wow! I totally had a breakdown today. I am an emotional wreck! I have been crying off and on all day today. I know it isn't just because of the anniversary of our loss, but we have also been doing a ton of stuff lately, my husband had interviews for jobs for the last 2 weeks, I have been super busy as a PTA president....etc......trying to take care of my kids nad do all these other things and I think it finally just got to me. I hate crying.:smileysad:

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-11-2006
Thu, 10-14-2010 - 12:50pm

Thanks for telling us your story. I had my year anniversary of mine yesterday. It was very hard. If you don't know what happened you can read my story in another thread. I am glad you came here to let us know your story. I am so sorry for your loss. I know that time heals but even on the

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-14-2010
Thu, 10-14-2010 - 12:44pm

Men definately deal with it in a completely different way. My dh is a mechanic, and handy fixing anything. I think he felt completely helpless because he couldn't fix it and didn't know the right words to say. For a long time he didn't talk about it at all. But things happened that showed me that it had affected him. He just dealt with it differently. It has been a long time since our loss. I remember the dates, I'm pretty sure he does not. But he remembers that we lost a baby and it broke both of our hearts.

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Registered: 08-29-2008
Thu, 10-14-2010 - 12:16pm

Actually, I just came here to post- I haven't in a LOOOONGG time. Today is not such a good day- 2 years ago today I lost my first pregnancy. I was only about 6 weeks pregnant, but we were so excited to finally be expecting after 18 months of trying. I am a mom now (I got pregnant again four months later, we just celebrated her 1st birthday last month) so she makes this day much easier- I can't imagine facing the anniversary of a loss without her. But, it's still hard. I remember the day it happened like it was yesterday... calling my DF and telling him I was bleeding, I was going to the ER. Telling

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