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Fri, 09-14-2012 - 2:08pm

I've been wondering how everyone is doing, please check in with an update.    How are you healing, both physically and emotionally?  Are you getting ready to TTC again?

(((HUGS)))

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Thu, 10-11-2012 - 9:57pm

Has anyone heard from Julia? I hope all is okay!

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Mon, 10-01-2012 - 3:25pm

(((HUGS))) you are right that some days you just have to do what you can to get through.  Hang in there. 

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Sat, 09-29-2012 - 11:54pm
My beta is finally down to 5 so the dr has released me and I finally feel back to my self again. I'm still not completely understanding if what happened and why it happened but I think I'm ready to move on and try again. DH and I are going to counseling sessions together to get through it. We seem to have gotten even closer. Just for anyone who is struggling- it does get better. Some days are crap but just take it day by day, hour by hour. We will get through this.
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Thu, 09-27-2012 - 10:25am

awwww Krista...hugs!!

I know what you mean.....due dates are hard.  The only thing that sucks more, is getting pg. again, only to lose a second one!  :smileysad:

I had to go thru my due date in July and I have another one coming up in Jan.  So, this time....I think we've stopped TTC, 'if' I ever got pg. again, it will have to be a surprise. BUT, if I lost that one too? I would be VERY angry with God! I've 'finally' come to peace with our last loss, so I'm hoping God wouldn't do that to me again.

Anyway, I am sorry you have to be reminded of what you lost....big hugs!!  :heart:

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Mon, 09-24-2012 - 4:36pm

Big (((HUGS))) Krista, I wish you weren't hurting so bad :smileysad:  

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Sat, 09-22-2012 - 7:04pm

Hi Melissa,

I've been doing well until this week.  My due date is two weeks away and all of a sudden, I have been crying a lot again.  I thought I was past  this:smileysad:  We TTC immediately after the D&C and for the 5 months following, but with no luck.  I had it in my head that we would only TTC until Will's due date, and I thought for sure we would be pregnant again by now.  I have several friends and neighbors with due dates very close to mine, so I am constantly seeing signs with balloons in the yards as I drive by, e-mails about making meals for families with new babies, attending baby showers for friends/neighbors.  I can't seem to get past this overwhelming, all consumming sadness this week.  I hope it goes away soon...I feel like it is really taking away my enjoyment of my other children.

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