Sad to be joining....

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Registered: 05-25-2007
Sad to be joining....
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Tue, 02-28-2012 - 10:26am
I had my 23w appt yesterday and to my surprise it looks like my baby passes about 2w ago.
I never thought in a million years i would lose a child so late in my pregnancy. Ive had previous MC before as late as 10w but never in my 2nd trimester. This was suppose to be the happiest time of my life and now i feel like my whole life shattered. I still dont have the heart to tell my 3 older kids as they have been really excited i do have a 10m old. Im grateful for the kids i do have. Im grieving and in alot of pain emotionally.
How do u tell older kids theres no baby comming. Im not sure what to expect during this process...im suppose to find out today when they want to schedual everything. In the meantime i still have baby inside with me :(

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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-11-2012
Tue, 03-06-2012 - 8:23am

You are ABSOLUTELY SO RIGHT!

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-25-2007
Tue, 03-06-2012 - 10:42am
Thank you ladies so much! I really needed that boost. This has been a mentally and emotionaly draining week to say the least. Although im aware Nothing will happen today. I pray everything will go well Tomorrow!!! Im just now trying to gather my things and the kids and wait for DH so we can get on the road.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-11-2012
Tue, 03-06-2012 - 12:27pm

We're here for you.

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Registered: 01-11-2012
Tue, 03-13-2012 - 10:12am

Thinking about you and wondered how you are doing.

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