Trying again...

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Registered: 04-10-2012
Trying again...
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Tue, 04-10-2012 - 4:26pm

Last year I suffered 2 miscarriages, the first one at 11 weeks, the second one later in the year at 7 weeks -

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Registered: 02-04-2010
Thu, 04-19-2012 - 9:13am

I know exactly how you feel. My loss was in Dec at 15wks 1 day and I do not ever want to go thru that pain again. I do want another baby though :( DH and I both know what we WANT but we also both know what we dont want. Its hard to take that leap of faith and decide what to do. There are no guarantees. We are clear to start trying as of last month actually. We have a vacation planned for the coast in early July and I definately dont want to get pregnant before then. I would be to worried that the activity could be dangerous. I guess we will have to seriously consider it before my next cycle after vacation b/c lets face it we are not getting any younger. We both turned and will turn 34 this year. HUGS to you. I know how you feel. Hopeful yet terrified at the same time.

April
Loving wife to John
Mom to Tristan 4/20/96
and now to Jack 9/15/10
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Registered: 01-11-2012
Wed, 04-11-2012 - 4:04pm

WOW your post came days after my son's stillbirth anniversary and the anniversary of his funeral (Easter Sunday this year).