D&C Update

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Registered: 06-22-2004
D&C Update
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Sat, 10-09-2010 - 10:08am

First, thank you for the support.

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Registered: 09-11-2006
Sat, 10-09-2010 - 12:37pm

I totally understand how you feel. People kept telling me that I was lucky that I had 3 kids and I should be thankful for that. Truth is, they are right. It just hurts to hear it. It is interesting that the people in my life who have told me to move on were the ones that had not experienced it before. The ones who offered hugs and told me they understand were the ones who had experienced it.

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Registered: 06-22-2004
Sat, 10-09-2010 - 10:20pm
Thanks clou2who2. Every time I tell myself that it's not so bad then I am on the brink of tears. It's a roller coaster ride for sure. I'm ok one minute and a blubbering mess the next. I'm just glad that someone understands where I'm coming from and I don't feel so guilty about the feelings I am having. Honestly, I have been pretty much avoiding my family and friends...except my mom and mother in law. I just don't want to talk about it until I can talk without crying or blowing a gasket. I hope that point comes soon because this is misery at its finest.
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Registered: 09-11-2006
Sun, 10-10-2010 - 8:33pm
It may come tomorrow, it may come in a year. Sometimes the grieving process takes time. You will find that you will grow so much from having this experience. Be strong. I know it is hard right now but you can do it. Remember to take care of YOU. It is most important right now. You need to heal physically as well as mentally. I still cry when I talk about it sometimes. Sometimes it comes unexplained. It is natural and you will experience it. But it isn't a bad thing. I hope the best for you and hope that things start getting easier.

(((((HUGS)))))