Heartbroken

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Registered: 03-13-2006
Heartbroken
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Fri, 11-11-2011 - 4:14pm

I am angry and lost and in so much emotional pain I can't even began to write. I lost my baby on Monday at 7 weeks and 2 days. I felt contractions and labor pains for about 1 hour and I knew it was all over. I had to go to work the next day and the day after. Now that the week is over it is all coming down on me......I do not know how to get over this. I am still in physical pain, but the emotional pain is worst. I did not expect to feel this way. I love my child. My boyfriend is grieving as well and that eases the pain somehow. I know this will pass. I know I will be able to have more children as I have a very healthy 5 year old girl. But I wanted that child and he is gone, forever and no one,except for you ladies, can understand that pain.

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Registered: 08-16-2009
Sun, 11-13-2011 - 10:04pm

I just found out 3 hours ago that I lost my baby. I am was 6 weeks along. I didnt expect it to ever happen. Or to feel this way if and when it did. I kept telling the nurse before I found out that I was glad if I did I wouldnt blame myself and yet now I found myself questioning things. I know its not my fault. The what if's are swimming though. And each Time I go to the bathroom and see blood again I break down all over again. XO. ((Hugs)) I know how much it hurts.

by Ruby
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Registered: 11-13-2008
Mon, 11-14-2011 - 2:52pm

Just wanted to send you some (((HUGS)).

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Registered: 11-13-2008
Mon, 11-14-2011 - 2:54pm
Lisa, I'm so sorry about your loss, (((HUGS))). It's hard not to question everything, and to end up with no answers. We'll be here for you.

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Registered: 12-07-2011
Wed, 12-07-2011 - 1:00am

I am so sorry for your loss. I went in for my 12 week appointment last Wednesday and discovered that the baby no longer had a heartbeat and was measuring at 9 weeks. I went to the ER at 9 weeks due to bleeding and the baby had a heartbeat at that time, they did an exam and said everything looked great. But my OB thinks that the baby died shortly after the