Just want to complain

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Registered: 10-07-2010
Just want to complain
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Mon, 11-01-2010 - 11:58am

Today is my 1st back to work. I know people don’t know what to say, I’m normally one of them. I always say the wrong thing, LOL. But all the men @ work are asking how I’m doing and asking general questions. NONE of the women have said one word to me! Now maybe they know how hard it is and are just giving me time but it feels like they don’t think what I went/going thru was a big deal. When I tell the men I had to deliver Matthew they are all shocked it wasn’t a D&C. And he has a name and stillborn birth certificate. I’m not saying a D&C isn’t just as difficult because it is. I don’t know it just seems like they don’t think I should have been off work for a week. At my job when someone isn’t here someone else has to do the job. I work closely with one woman and she had to pick-up any slack from when I was off. She hasn’t said 2 words to me and it seems like she’s mad I was off. I tried to talk to her about work stuff and she was kind of rude and just said “well I was too busy to do that”, I wasn’t asking her to do anything just asking if she had done something for herself.

 

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Registered: 09-11-2006
Mon, 11-01-2010 - 12:22pm

I am so sorry that they are treating you that way. So sad. I hope that things get better. (((((HUGS)))))