baby gone

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Registered: 12-17-2009
baby gone
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Mon, 08-01-2011 - 11:01pm

So its been a while since I have been here. I guess I have been ok but in Sept. it will be 2 yrs since I lost my baby Raymond. I think about him everyday. People at work drive me crazy I feel like a can't tell them the pain that I feel, like if they are tired of hearing it. Like I should be over it. Sometimes life

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Registered: 05-04-2010
In reply to: alanajoe
Tue, 08-02-2011 - 9:14am

I'm so sorry for your loss of Raymond.

Marcy


 


Forever in my heart...

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Registered: 11-13-2008
In reply to: alanajoe
Tue, 08-02-2011 - 2:23pm
(((HUGS))) People just don't understand that the pain never really goes away.

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Registered: 09-21-2009
In reply to: alanajoe
Tue, 08-02-2011 - 4:33pm

I am sorry for the loss of your Raymond. My DD Emory has been gone for 2 yrs also and I will say that some days are OK and some days it hurts as much as the day I lost her. I am still coming to terms with the fact that there will always be a big empty hole in my heart. I love my 2 older children and my rainbow so much...I can not imagine my life without them, but I will never forget my angel. I do not expect anyone who has not lost a child to understand...they just can't. I hold my memories of her in my heart and remember that a mother's love does not know the difference between earth and heaven.

Hugs to you

Melissa

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Registered: 12-27-2010
In reply to: alanajoe
Tue, 08-02-2011 - 5:04pm

I am so sorry for your loss...like a previous post, I too am amazed at how quickly others move on and forget that you have experienced a devastating loss...one that will be with you forever and that you will think about daily.

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Registered: 12-17-2009
In reply to: alanajoe
Fri, 08-05-2011 - 9:11pm

Thank you ladies I guess I didn't realize I needed that. Sometimes I wonder why life didn't stop that day. You looked outside the hospital

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Registered: 08-05-2011
In reply to: alanajoe
Sun, 09-18-2011 - 6:58pm
Amen, to that!!! I find myself here today b/c I'm at a loss. No one understands. We knew our babies. For me, not even her Father understands and hearing I'm sorry over and over again just isn't cutting it. I need his support.