My baby Koi

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Registered: 10-05-2010
My baby Koi
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Tue, 10-05-2010 - 10:38pm

I lost my son Koi on Sept 8th, 2010.

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Registered: 11-13-2008
In reply to: koi_3
Tue, 10-05-2010 - 11:14pm

I'm so very sorry about the loss of your little boy.

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Registered: 10-15-2006
In reply to: koi_3
Wed, 10-06-2010 - 8:22am

stay strong!!!!, i know that it is tough but hang in there. i lost two babies this year may5,2010 and truned around and got pregnant again and lost the other

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Registered: 07-12-2010
In reply to: koi_3
Wed, 10-06-2010 - 8:55am

Hi. I lost my daughter at 34 and 1/2 weeks due to an umbilical cord incident on June 21, 2010. The first couple of months are rough but they start to get easier and you learn how to move on in your life but not forget about your precious baby. It has been 3 and 1/2 months and last night I was able for the first time to talk about Kandace and not cry. You will go through so many emotions sad, angry, etc. Just take your days one at a time and sometimes you have to take days one hour at a time. It helps to communicate especially to you dh. I found that helped me and my dh the most was to communicate about how we feel and not bottle it up. I have also been writing in a journal and that has helped me. It also helps to have a place like here because everyone understands.

I am so sorry that you had to join us all here. I do hope you find comfort in the women hear. They have been great to me and even better since I joined the ttc after stillbirth board. Feel free to say anything about how you feel here on this board everyone on here knows what you are gonig through and how you feel.

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Registered: 10-06-2010
In reply to: koi_3
Wed, 10-06-2010 - 4:35pm

Lilypie
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Registered: 10-05-2010
In reply to: koi_3
Wed, 10-06-2010 - 8:49pm

I am so sorry for your loss.

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Registered: 11-03-2010
In reply to: koi_3
Wed, 11-03-2010 - 5:46pm
I just signed on today and am thankful that I'm not alone here. It has been sooo hard. We, too, have no idea what happened and are just destroyed to put it mildly. I am here anytime you want to chat.
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Registered: 10-06-2010
In reply to: koi_3
Thu, 11-04-2010 - 3:23pm

Hello Koi's mommy ...I somehow missed your reply? i am sorry for that.

Lilypie