our angel

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Registered: 06-28-2011
our angel
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Tue, 06-28-2011 - 12:15am
Our little girl was born last night at 22 weeks 6 days. We went into the hospital when my wife started cramping. We were only there for about a half an hour when they called me into the triage room to tell me the news that they couldnt find a heartbeat. I took a while to hit me, but when yhe doctor not the resident did the ultrasound. Still there was no heartbeat. Our little angel's name is Hadley Renee. She was born on June 26 2011 at 809 pm. She was 14oz and 11 1/2 inches long. She is missed an loved more than she will ever know. Daddy loves you baby girl.
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In reply to: chadjg82
Tue, 06-28-2011 - 8:03am

I am so very very sorry for your loss.

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Registered: 11-13-2008
In reply to: chadjg82
Tue, 06-28-2011 - 11:29am
I'm so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful litte girl, sending you and your wife lots of (((HUGS))).

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In reply to: chadjg82
Wed, 06-29-2011 - 10:44am
I am so sorry for your loss. It's by far been the worst thing my husband and I have gone through. We lost our son Landon at 35 weeks last March. He has been a great strength as I'm sure you will be for your wife. He held his grief from me for months, I thought he was fine and would be better off without me since I was obviously still not fine. It turned out that he wasn't as fine as he made me believe. It got a bit easier for me to go on when I found out that he was feeling the same way. My lows were very low and honestly, I was pretty depressed for almost the whole first year. He could have easily walked away while I lay on the couch, but he didn't, he stood strong, he picked up the slack that I brought and waited for me. I'm so thankful that he stood by me through that awful first year.

I'm telling you this because honestly, at the time I had convinced myself that he'd be better without me, I wasn't planning on leaving him, I was planning on leaving it all... In my depressed mind, I actually thought he would be fine with that - now I think what was I thinking, but had he not been so strong yet so able to share what he was truly feeling, who know...

Your little girl has a beautiful name.


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