My story - sunshine after rain :)

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Registered: 06-29-2011
My story - sunshine after rain :)
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Wed, 06-29-2011 - 2:24am

Hi Ladies,

(Sorry for the typos. Im typing quickly and dont have time to go back and change

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Wed, 06-29-2011 - 2:18pm
Thank you for sharing your story. I'm so very sorry about the loss of your little boy :(

Congratulations on the birth of your daughter, I hope that she brings lots of healing into your heart.

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Wed, 06-29-2011 - 8:35pm

Hi Melissa,

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Registered: 07-04-2011
Mon, 07-04-2011 - 4:25pm

You have a beautiful story, thank you so much for sharing. It's good to have stories like that, that share the hope and encouragement that we all need!

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Registered: 07-05-2011
Tue, 07-05-2011 - 12:25pm

I lost my baby boy, Benjamin on June 15, 2011 at 24 weeks and 2 days.

This gives me hope....

Thank you for sharing.

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Registered: 06-29-2011
Wed, 07-06-2011 - 5:47am
hi hun, im so sorry for your loss. your little boy is with my boy in heaven <3 Much love and you will have a screaming bubba sooner than you think. xoxo
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Tue, 07-19-2011 - 12:39pm

Thank you so much for sharing your story.. I am very sorry to hear about your loss.. Congrats for your little baby girl. I suffered a stillbirth and lost my first born baby boy 2 weeks ago due to a nuchal cord accident. We went for our USG and there was no heartbeat, I lost him at 25 wks.. I am feeling so empty from inside, my mind still thinks I am pregnant... I do not know how I am going to live now without my baby... Dh and I are both in shock.. I also want to try soon as I think having a baby will give me a reason to be alive again.. When did you start TTC after you lost your baby? I find it inspiring reading that you felt pregnant straight away, do you mind if I ask you how soon was that?

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Tue, 07-19-2011 - 9:20pm
Hi Hun, Yes I know the shock feeling. I know how you are feeling right now.. I felt the need to try again and felt I was ready. I wanted to be back to being "pregnant".

I know how you feel. Life seems empty and cruel right now. My daughter is 6 months old and 1 day now and it still feels like yesterday that I lost her little brother. For me I Lost my boy on Feb 21 2010 and found out I was pregnant in May 2010. Remember hun your body will take a month or more for post partum stuff to exit.

I dont mind you asking at all. I was you and I am happy to be able to finally tell me story and maybe help someone going through the same experience :(

Much love and the very best of luck to you and your family. You will get through this and come out on the other side. xxxx
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Tue, 08-02-2011 - 11:43pm
Thanks for sharing your story. I know exactly what you mean, about the pain being buried so deep.. its been over 5 years I lost my son and am now feeling like maybe I have the courage to start again. Your daughter is adorable congrats!!!