Plan to Get Through the Holidays

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Registered: 09-21-2009
Plan to Get Through the Holidays
Mon, 11-23-2009 - 8:22pm

So my DH and I met with our councilor today...topic of discussion...Our plan to get through the Holidays. I won't bore you with the details of

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Registered: 10-20-2008
Tue, 11-24-2009 - 11:50am
Thanks Melissa.. Although this will be my second holiday after my loss I am still dreading them. I think I should print this and leave around for all the ignorant family members who just don't get it. I have an ornament with his name on it and where we hang the stockings I put a "Baby's first Christmas" teddy bear. It is really hard. We still feel the loss but it seems everyone has forgotten and moved on.

Cindy age 38, DH 44

Chemical pregnancy Aug 5th 2009 Levon lost @ 28 weeks due to a cord accident June 19th 2008. TTC for 18 cycles and counting :(






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Registered: 04-24-2007
Tue, 11-24-2009 - 9:23pm
Thank you for sharing this Melissa. I am taking a lot of these suggestions to heart. Wishing you strength and peace during the holidays.


*Remembering Our Angel Baby Edward Scott


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Registered: 11-05-2009
Wed, 11-25-2009 - 11:09am
Thank you for sharing. My counselor mentioned some of the same thoughts when we talked about the holidays. This is going to be a hard time of the year for all of us, but we will get through it and hopefully we will all have little babies in our arms next Christmas.
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Registered: 04-07-2005
Thu, 11-26-2009 - 9:43am

Thanks for the tips....they are really helpful. I should definitely print this out...

Enjoy your day today!