We had this issue with our last trip - DH wanted nothing to do with the planning. So I finally said "Is there anything you need to see or anywhere you need to eat while we're there? Is there anything you need NOT to see or anywhere you need NOT to eat while we're there?" He gave me his input...then I did all the planning with no more input, info or opinions from him, which is just the way he wanted it. And we all had a great time!!!
We had this issue with our last trip - DH wanted nothing to do with the planning. So I finally said "Is there anything you need to see or anywhere you need to eat while we're there? Is there anything you need NOT to see or anywhere you need NOT to eat while we're there?" He gave me his input...then I did all the planning with no more input, info or opinions from him, which is just the way he wanted it. And we all had a great time!!!
JoAnna in TX