Flaky Husband

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Registered: 09-30-2011
Flaky Husband
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Thu, 07-26-2012 - 3:55pm

Grr, I'm so irritated with my husband right now I'd like to just throttle him.  I was probably more hestitant at first when the subject of children would come up, a few months go by and he talks me into start trying to get pregnant.  Well, now that I'm feeling more confident about the decision and getting more excited, he decides that he's not ready!!!  He's been having fun this summer going out with our friends, hitting local spots and just having a good time, and now wants to have a couple more years of fun before being tied down.   What the heck is going on with him?  My frustration level is about to go through the roof, and he might not find me at home this weekend.  I'm considering going to stay with my parents just for a break.  Why didn't he know this back when I was still on the fence about it?

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Registered: 02-07-2011
Fri, 08-03-2012 - 4:26pm
I'm sorry your dh is being such a bonehead. I think I would be gone longer than a weekend! It sounds like he's still a bit immature, and needs to realize there is more to life than having fun. I could see him asking to hold off a few months or even a year, but asking for a few years after being the one to push it? That's just totally being a butthead, grr.....

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