Husband is ready for kids but I have some kinks to work out...need advice.
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|Wed, 01-04-2012 - 11:37am|
I've always wanted kids and said I wanted to have my first one by the time I'm thirty(I‘m 26 now). My husband(28 yrs) wanted kids eventually but showed no interest until just a few days ago. He went out to have a beer with his boss who told him if you wait till the perfect time you’ll never have kids because no time will ever be “perfect”. That got him to really thinking and with his birthday coming up he ran home to tell me to stop taking my birth control he was ready for kids. First I had to over come the shock of his sudden epiphany. Then came all the scenarios in my head. I had imagined that when I had my first baby It would be in my home town with my mom(a nurse)there and all my best friends and family would come to visit my husband and I and our new baby. Then afterwards my mom would be able to stay with me as long as I needed till I was comfortable to care for my baby without her. But that’s not so logical now, my husbands motivation to move up within his company has moved us 4 times in the last 5 years. We are now about an hour and forty-five minutes away from my hometown and I agreed if that’s the closest I was going to get to home then I’d settle down here. But the idea of having a