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Tue, 12-20-2011 - 9:07pm

Hi!

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Registered: 11-13-2008
Wed, 12-21-2011 - 4:24pm
Welcome to the board! I think you need to tell your family and friends that your body isn't up to having a child right now. If they keep pressuring you, you might want to ask them if they care at all about your health ;) I'm really sorry they are stressing you out about it, have you told your mom how upset her comments make you?

While your late 20s is on the older end in the fertility world, it doesn't mean that you won't be able to have a child in your 30s even. You should have one when the timing feels right to you, not based on others pressuring you to do it. (((HUGS))), I hope that they'll stop bugging you about it. You might need to just get abrupt with your responses if they don't back down.