My husband is younger than me.....
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|Wed, 04-18-2007 - 1:40pm|
So my husband is 26 and I am soon to be 33. We have been married 1 year and everything is great! We are about to move into a house!!
But he is so not ready to TTC. And I soooo am. I have given up trying to talk to him about it (2 months of me not saying anything) because when I did, he would say that's all I ever think about and would question me repeatedly about whether I had taken my BC pills. Like I would stop taking them and not tell him!!!!
So now the only time we talk about having kids is when we see something on TV or someone we know is pregnant/has kids. So very general, in the future type conversations.
Last night, he actually said he thought when he have a baby, I would stop paying attention to him, not have any time for him. And he said his useful would be over. Like I only married him for his sperm!! I was shocked and said I would never ignore him and that it would be like that. But he just said "well, I hope not." :(
How can I talk to him about TTC soon? I am running out of time!! I want to have 2-3 children. He said that was what he wanted to also BEFORE we got married. We talked about a time line but never agreed on when to start TTC. Needless to say, mine is much shorter than his.