How long will you try for?

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How long will you try for?
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Fri, 07-20-2012 - 2:15pm

If you don't get the gender you desire this time, do you think you'll try again?  

With my youngest, I just knew in my heart that I was done having kids.  At this point in my life, my sanity is more important than having a girl :smileywink:

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Fri, 08-03-2012 - 10:32am

I agree melissa, at some point, the reality of having more kids will outway the dream for a girl, I don't think I'm there yet, one more maybe someday, then I might be done, I still want a two boy and two girl type family though, so I hope twin girls, then I could be done, but wouldn't the reality of that just be ridiculous!

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Fri, 08-03-2012 - 11:27am
You never know, my dh wanted 4 kids but I only wanted to be pregnant 3 times. I figure that's where my twins come in :smileywink:

Can you believe that my youngest actually had a dream the other night that I was pregnant and had a girl? Pretty odd, and I don't think the was very happy with the dream!

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Mon, 08-20-2012 - 11:01am

I dream all the time about having another child, but it's always a boy, last night I had twin boys, but all of those dreams aren't happy, I wake up like it's a nightmare b/c it sends me over the edge emotion wise,  god's way of helping me cope I dk