Need advice quick!! (long and TMI)
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|Tue, 08-04-2009 - 11:55am|
I'm sorry I'm flooding this board with so many questions lately. It's just that now is the time, and I'm realizing there are still so many things I feel lost on.
The big thing you have to know and is that DH doesn't know what's going on. He's happy about TTC, and he wants to sway for a boy, but he doesn't want to know until after we're safely pregnant. He just gets super stressed about it, and after what we went through conceiving DD, I agree he's better off not knowing. So since May, we've agreed I'll try it when I want to and try not to let him know. Of course, that makes swaying SO much harder!
I thought I'd most likely ovulate on/around Saturday the 1st. To sway for a boy, we stopped DTD after Tuesday. It was NOT easy, especially since DH didn't know. Anyway, Saturday came and went, and I was still getting negative OPKs. Finally, Sunday night it was faintly positive. So we BDd last night (Monday). I was able to sneak in the baking soda finger, pre-seed and even got DH to drink caffeine. I Od and dictated position, so all that was fine. But after an hour he wanted to do it again! I tried to put him off by being creative, but it backfired and we ended up doing it again with regular lube. I just froze and couldn't come up with any reason not to that didn't sound suspicious. Then this morning my temp had only gone up 0.2, so I don't know if I actually ovulated. Maybe, maybe not.
Anyway, that's the background info and here's my question: if I'm not sure whether I ovulated, do we do it again tonight? Same drill with swaying? Or should I avoid it?