Another new WTT gal here!
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|Fri, 12-25-2009 - 1:52am|
My name's Robin, I just turned 35 and DH Ryan is 31. We have been married 3 months now, together since May of '06. We were long-distance for a year and a half. Then he moved out to be with me when I lived in Los Angeles (he's from a tiny town in Illinois.) We moved to Flagstaff AZ in February of this year, hate it, lol, and are hoping to move to the Phoenix/Metro area of AZ ASAP!!
We are waiting to try til September of 2010, since that's our year anniversary and we both agree it's a good idea to wait at LEAST a year after getting married to TTC a child. Also, we live in an apartment in Flag (did I mention I hate it here, lol?) and we want to get a house down south a bit--I don't want to risk getting pregnant while we're in the middle of a move since it's just him and I. We have no family around us to help out.
Part of me (the part who's gynecologist told her last year that if I wanted a child I better get on it because I'm not getting any younger) wants to try sooner, but I again, the need to get into an actual HOUSE is more important than that.
Financially, we're good, even though we don't have jobs--I have an inheritance we're living off of. But we would spend all of it if we bought the house outright so we want to get a mortgage. Problem is, without jobs, no one will lend to us, even WITH a significant amount of money in the bank. Go figure!
So anyways, glad to meet all of you. I probably won't post alot; I'm more of a lurker, but I'll be here. Thank you!