Can I Jump in?

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Registered: 07-22-2008
Can I Jump in?
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Tue, 04-07-2009 - 6:10am

I'm sammy. Engagement is in the next 6 months && Planning a 2010 wedding. SO has two kids, a boy and girl from a previous relationship they will be 2 & 4 in May (born on the exact same day 2 years apart) their mom recently decided she couldn't take care of them and so now we have them full time, he works on a rig 7 hours from our home for two weeks and is home for two weeks.
I'm 20 , he is 26, I've been told It will be hard for me to get pregnant but I'm on the pill just in case.
I want to wait two years after we're married to TTC, but I don't want his kids to be A lot older than my baby.
Its hard because raising his two now makes me want my own, and 2012 seems so far away!
I've already made a list of baby names too lol.

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Registered: 04-03-2008
In reply to: fickyy
Tue, 04-07-2009 - 10:31am

Hi Sammy!

Welcome to the board. I can imagine that having two kids at home makes the wait much more difficult but think your plan of waiting awhile after marriage is a good one.

I'm Ashley 23, and my husband Thomas 27 and I are waiting until September to start TTC our first.

We have a buddy group for people waiting until 2011 and 2012 you should check it out:)


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Registered: 05-04-2005
In reply to: fickyy
Tue, 04-07-2009 - 9:07pm

Welcome, Sammy! Good luck with your wait and hopefully the time will fly by for you!


I am Brianne- 28.

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Registered: 09-30-2006
In reply to: fickyy
Tue, 04-07-2009 - 10:30pm
Hey Sammy good to see you over here :-) Welcome!

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Registered: 04-08-2008
In reply to: fickyy
Thu, 04-09-2009 - 12:30am

Nice to "meet" you here. I'm Dee. I'm 37, married to DH (almost 37) and we have a little one 14 mos. We wanted to TTC in Aug but it might be on hold till Dec.


2012 does seem like a really long time away. Yet when I think back to '06 it doesn't seem that long ago, LOL. Time sure does seem to fly. I'm sure you are so busy with the 2 new LOs in the home that you barely have time to think about TTCing ;-) I know...even thats not true!


Dee