DH's not ready... HELP
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|Sat, 06-28-2003 - 6:18pm|
DH is not ready at all. Are all men like that?
He says he is selfish and having kids would make huge lifestyle change and he is not willing to give that up.
He does not like kids - other people's kids but has heard from his male friends that it is different if it is his.
Having kids is not high on his list, but he would have them because I wanted them so badly. He also mentioned that the assumption of getting married is to start a family.
he is afraid of change and afraid of being a good father because he did not grow up in a good family. He does not see families as happy - he sees them stressed, angry, overworked, frustrated.
Why do people want to have kids?
What should I do?