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|Mon, 11-17-2008 - 9:11pm|
Just got married last month, October 18, best day of my life!!! I never thought I would be this way; DH and I had it all planned out. We would wait for 3 or 4 years before TTC, but ever since we got married, I have been hot hot hot with baby fever. Everytime I bring it up, he acts like I'm just joking, but I'm not!!!! He's 24 and I'm almost 23, but neither of us have any sort of career going and we have no money and some debt, credit card and he owes on his car. Of course, I want to be in a certain place before I bring a child into this world, such as have a house and a great career and a savings account, but if we wait until all that criteria is fulfilled, who knows how long we will be waiting?
Both of our parents are against us having kids, we need to "spend more time together and get to know each other." We have been together for almost 4 years, we know each other very well! But I guess it's our life, not our parents.
So yesterday, I was on the internet and found that a woman's fertility decreases at age 24. I told this to DH and it got him thinking, so I think we are going to start trying on my birthday next year (when I turn 24 on December 28, 2009). Yay!
I just need some support to get me all the way there! I've read a couple of your posts and I think I've come to the right place for support!!!!!
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