New, caught btw TTC&WTT and very hurt...
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|Sun, 07-13-2008 - 7:44pm|
I've been hanging out lately at the TTCYFC board for a little over a month now, in preparation for TTC next month. However, because of financials, and DH thinking our situation to be more dire than it really is (he's a lawyer, we own a home, and I'm a grad student), we may be delaying until the spring of '09.
I'm sure I don't have to explain to you guys how much this breaks my heart. I've been trying to be so cautiously optimistic about TTC soon, and my worst fear is happening: Now that we are approaching our TTC date, DH is backpedaling. He is not without his points, his insurance is crappy, and once I graduate I'll have an MSW and can work for the state with awesome insurance. If we rely on his insurance we'll end up paying out of pocket anywhere from $2000-$6000 because of co-insurance and deductible. Also, he is very unhappy where he