new-intro to me

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Registered: 10-20-2008
new-intro to me
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Mon, 10-20-2008 - 9:40pm

i need a place to hang out for a while. i'm Liz(26) married to dh seth(29), and we have two dd ages 3&4(15 mo apart), and one ds that is almost 4 months. we want one more(hopefully boy) in the near future sometime. we have never waited to try, i have a problem staying prego i just miscarry(7 of them). my dh is on board with what ever i want, a blessing i know. mostly i just fight my own head. when i stay prego i have extremely miserable pregnancies and so i'm not ready yet, i want to wait till hopefully spring to ttc. the other side of my brain says that i want to get my last one over with asap. we just want one more of our own and when dh is done with school we want to get into foster care and adoption.

so while we are not trying we are not really preventing either. i REALLY want one more but i don't want to have any more miscarages, miserable pregnancies, and i haven't had AF since ds was born. i have no idea what the future brings, i just need a place to belong and vent while i figure everything out.

hope you don't mind me hanging out

Liz

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Registered: 04-03-2008
Tue, 10-21-2008 - 4:01am


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Hi Liz!


It sounds like the whole pregnancy process is not fun at all for you and I am so sorry for all of your miscarriages!!! I would also like to try foster care and adopting at some point so I think that is a great idea.


You are definitely welcome to wait here with us:) We are a great group of women with a lot of different reasons for waiting, I'm sure you will fit right in. I'm Ashley 22, waiting to try with my fiance Thomas 27, until summer of 09 or 10. He doesn't feel ready to give anything up yet but I am hoping some of that changes over this next year, we'll see:)



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Registered: 10-20-2008
Tue, 10-21-2008 - 11:08am

Thanks Ashley, it really isn't fun, but definantly worth it in the end!!! I'm actually kinda excited to have a place to go while i'm waiting, i'm sure it makes a difference when we can help support each other.

Liz

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Registered: 06-15-2006
Tue, 10-21-2008 - 4:44pm

Hello. Im new here too. Im sorry you've had to deal with so many losses. Your so brave. I totaly understand just wanting to get your last baby "out of the way and over with" but it probably would be smart with your history to give your body a breather and just enjoy the new little one and enjoy breast feeding and try again in the Spring. That would be a great time to get preggo! Either way, good luck!

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