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|Wed, 10-14-2009 - 7:07pm|
Hi I'm Keri and I'm 26. My husband and I were just married last month in beautiful Jamaica. We bought our house in July and have been working towards changing his career. We're still in the screening process with what will probably be another long wait before we find out what's going to happen. We're keeping our fingers crossed that he gets into the academy.
My main goals were to be married and have a house before starting a family. Now that I've done both, I'm anxious to start trying but our financial situation isn't nearly where I need it to be to feel comfortable trying. Plus hubby needs to find a job in the meantime to help us get by until we know more about the other job opportunity.
One of the hardest things for me lately is that my best friend will be TTC next month. We've always talked about getting pregnant together and what fun it would be. I'm kind of sad that she's ready before me, but it is the right time for her. Of course if we're ready in the next couple of months we still could be pregnant together (pretty sure we won't be ready by then, but here's to hoping).
So after discussing it with DH we've decided to wait. Most of my friends are mommies already and are all for us starting now. It'll be nice to hear from others who understand my situation and can help me cope with baby fever.