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|Mon, 08-16-2010 - 9:21am|
I briefly posted an intro under another thread but i'd like to introduce myself again. I am 28 and my DH is 30. We have been married for 2 years. We have a nice home and i have a reliable job which i like a lot. DH also has a great job (although stressful) and he is upgrating his skills/education part time. So, in a nut shell, all should be great, right?
Well not quite. I am ready for TTC. H shifts between being ready and not being ready. I feel very discouraged at times. This weekend was difficult for me. PMS DID NOT HELP. I thought we were on the same page. That in the next few months, we will TTC. Well we met up with a (male) friend the other day who kept going on and on about how difficult it is to have kids, how he will wait much longer, etc. etc. And you know what - i broke down and i cried. In front of him and my H. I just couldn't take it. TTC is on my mind all the time. And the waiting is killing me. And it did not help to hear his rambling!! H did not say much, he tried to agree with the both of us so nto to offend anyone but he of course wasn't happy with me crying in front of his friend. My emotions are all out of whack.
Trying to get back to normal today. Thank GOD this weekend is over.
How do you deal with these things? With H not being quite ready? With other people's opinions? How often do you bring up this issue at home?
Thanks all for listening to my vent.