Not sure if WTT for #3

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Registered: 03-06-2007
Not sure if WTT for #3
Wed, 04-29-2009 - 2:48pm

I am new here, my name is T'Neal I am a loving mother of 2 DS Carter is 4 and Wyatt is 2 and they are the light of my life.

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Registered: 01-02-2009
Wed, 04-29-2009 - 3:47pm

Hi T'Neal,

I am/was in the same boat as you. DH and I have two DD's Jaslyn (5) and Jayla (2 going on 3 in May) and I started feeling earlier this year like I wanted a third. For me it might be that I want a boy, but I really love having children. I could think of a million reasons why we shouldn't but then I am like when is it the right time. Like you I thought maybe I should wait until next year, but of course it seems so far away. I too wish I could stay home with my babies, if not just for 6 months instead of two or three. I would love to be a SAHM, but financially it is not possible for us. It is hard to decide. You should also check out the Deciding to Try board as well. Those ladies input really helped as well. Talk it over with your DH and if he doesn't see any reason not to go for it then I guess you may have your answer.

Good Luck! I hope you get whatever you want!! Ticker
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Registered: 01-29-2008
Fri, 05-01-2009 - 12:22am

Hi and welcome to the board!

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Registered: 04-03-2008
Fri, 05-01-2009 - 4:03pm

Hi T'Neal!

Welcome to the board:) I'm Ashley and my husband and I are waiting until this June to start trying for our first.

Is there a reason to wait for a year? Because if there aren't any serious reasons holding you and your husband back I would just go for baby number three right now:D


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Registered: 07-20-2006
Fri, 05-01-2009 - 9:39pm

I'm wondering about why you are waiting a year too?

No it's not horrible to want a opps.. I missed my peroid last month and got a negitive and I also missed it this week.

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Registered: 03-18-2009
Mon, 05-04-2009 - 9:38am

what page is your dh on? if he's on board then go for it. i mean, i had two boys before a girl, i understand wanting 'pink'..having that desire, though of course not garunteed, could happen surely, and you got a real good situation going on w/ your dh, he sounds like an amazing dad.

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Registered: 07-17-2007
Tue, 05-05-2009 - 10:52am

I can totally understand how you feel and you're very lucky that your DH seems to be on board.