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|Wed, 07-30-2003 - 12:36pm|
Meanwhile, we hate it here, want to move, my husband hates his job, but nothing else is turning up even tho he is looking. He is a very small and specialized field and there is no way I could ever match or even come close to what he earns - besides that, I want to stay at home (and he agrees, always has) with any children we might ever one day possibly get around to having. And did I mention I'm not getting any younger?
We both desperatly want to move to another part of the country and OUT of the city - we are small-to-med size town people, we like a slower and more simple lifestyle, we'd like to be near family. Of course, can't move without a job, and hard to find a job 1500 miles away from where we currently live.
We are just SO READY to move ON and AWAY from here and it's not happening. We never planned to be here this long! It's just so frustrating! We wanted more than one child, but as I said I'm 30 - if I got pregnant TODAY I'd be 31 when we had our first. I almost feel like we've left it too late to get started, considering the long term implications.
I'm just so sad and so frustrated and I feel like stupid details have made all of our decisions FOR us.
I don't really have a question, I just wanted to rant and whine. Lovely way to introduce myself to the board, don't you think?