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Hi there! You sound a lot like me. My name is Emy, I'm 34 and was on the fence for a looong time about whether or not to have kids. DH always wanted them but me... I went back and forth a lot. What finally got me off the fence was not the realization of really wanting kids, but the realization that I didn't NOT want them. I always figured something would hit me to make me desperate to have them but in the end there was no desperation, just realizing "now or never." Of course now that we have had DD #1, I really, really, really wish I had gotten off the fence sooner!! DD completes my life in a way I didn't even know was lacking before. And now I'm back WTT for #2.
Welcome to the board and congrats on setting a date! I'm a WTT grad, mom to a one year old, and back to WTT for more!
I went off BCP and charted (checking CM and temp only, not checking CP) for 5 cycles using fertilityfriend.com and was fortunate to get PG the first cycle we decided to NPP. It's an exciting, emotional journey but all worth it in the end! I would also recommend reading Toni Weschler's 'Taking Charge of Your Fertility'. Lots of great info!
Welcome to the board. I am the same age as you, I turn 36 in September. I am feeling the "crunch" and I arleady have one however I know I want two and I don't have a ton of time left but we want them at least 3 years apart. I hope things go smoothly for you and you are able to concieve quickly when it's time.
I went off BCP in December 2008 and I started charting and I was getting so frustrated so the month I got pregnant I had given it up and it seems that is the time of when it happened. Not sure what I will do the second time around. I may be a little more worried about time since I will be older and I don't have a ton of time to waste.
David Nicholas 12/5/09Expecting a GIRL 3/23/13