Want to WTT #3, DH ready NOW
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|Wed, 04-22-2009 - 11:23am|
Hi, my name is Kara. I hope I don't make anybody mad, I didn't know where else to post this. My husband and I have two wonderful kids and we want a third. Right now, the timing would be perfect because my schooling next year will be entirely online and our oldest daughter wouldn't be "too far apart" from our youngest, BUT...
I have always pictured myself having four kids. DH wanted two, so we decided to meet in the middle at three. He is SUPER EAGER to start trying right now for our third and final baby, but I feel like if I get pregnant right now, I won't feel done. I don't have baby fever because my son is still, in most respects, a baby. I'm afraid that if I don't wait until I am desperate for the last baby, I'll end up with serious baby fever again when that baby hits toddlerhood.
I don't know what to do. The timing really is right for my DH and my other kids, I just think it'll be really hard on me. I feel totally selfish, but I'm afraid those pregnancy/motherhood emotions will get the best of me.