We have a TTC date!!!! (update)

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We have a TTC date!!!! (update)
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Wed, 10-26-2011 - 9:53pm

Yay!!! After a long time we finally have a date, July 2012. I went for my annual today and my dr asked when we would be TTC I told her as soon as I could get my DH to agree. So I briefly mentioned it tonight and he wanted it September. I wanted it May.

David Nicholas 12/5/09
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Mon, 01-09-2012 - 12:22pm
Sorry to hear that, Sandy, but it sounds like it's for the best! I am sure that paying off debt and saving up will make you feel more at ease! I also hope the economy recovers...

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Mon, 01-09-2012 - 10:02am

Well after I thought we had a date, things have changed. However, it was a mutual decision and he did not try to push it back. However, we are pushing it back to September. We both decided to wait until September. The first due date would be June which means David will be 3.5. We want him at least 3.5 especially the way he's been acting lately. I know no matter when we have another it's going to be an adjustment for him but we decided we'd rather have him at least 3.5 .

Secondly it's finances.. We have a big loan for our credit card debt which will be paid off in October. Also we have some extra debt on another card which we had to use for things we needed fixed this past year and we didn't have the money to pay for it.

David Nicholas 12/5/09
Expecting a GIRL 3/23/13

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Tue, 11-08-2011 - 6:11pm
Christine...I told dh this is it no turning back on a date now. Plus i am not getting any younger I just turned 36.

David Nicholas 12/5/09
Expecting a GIRL 3/23/13

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Tue, 11-08-2011 - 10:22am
AWESOME! :)


 


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Mon, 11-07-2011 - 10:48pm

Congrats on setting a date, Sandy!! I hope nothing changes your DHs mind between now and then and that is also great that you have a date for paying of debt.

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Mon, 11-07-2011 - 3:52pm
Congratulations!
Expecting baby #1 August 8th 2012! It's a girl!
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Fri, 10-28-2011 - 8:16am
Yay! I'm happy you and DH set on a date, Sandy! Love your new siggy, by the way!

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Fri, 10-28-2011 - 7:20am

That's why I love having you around Sandy. :) I think I'll be closer in age to where you were with David when I'm ready to have my first. Not everyone needs to get pregnant in their 20s! My mom had me at 32, and that was years ago when we knew less about health, conception, childbirth, etc! I'm in good health so I'm sure things will be fine if I wait til I'm financially and emotionally ready.

I think you need a countdown ticker Sandy! :)


 


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Fri, 10-28-2011 - 6:51am

My doctor said she wouldn't wait past 2012 since I am already 36 and your age declines every year past 35 but she said I do still have some time and lots of women go to have healthy babies but the older you get the bigger the chance of having issues especially the closer you get to 40. You're fairly young still so you don't have to worry and the age factor doesn't play into men like it does for women.

David Nicholas 12/5/09
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Thu, 10-27-2011 - 10:29pm

yay for a date!

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