WTT but not by choice and very depressed

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WTT but not by choice and very depressed
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Tue, 12-22-2009 - 7:24am

Hi.

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Registered: 04-17-2009
Tue, 12-22-2009 - 3:47pm

Hi and welcome to the forum!! I'm Victoria, and we are WTT our first next year.

I'm so sorry about your loss...I understand the feeling of wanting a girl since I really want one. How small is your house? Do your boys share rooms?


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Tue, 12-22-2009 - 6:57pm
I am sorry you are feeling this need but can't fulfill it at time. Have you thought about doing the opposite of constantly asking (not saying you are, but I know I can be quite annoying sometimes if I want something bad enough LOL), and just say I know how you think another would be a lot of work, and I agree but can't get this out of my system. Here are the ways I've found that we can work this out and afford it, then drop the topic. As hard as it is to do, then you can let him mull it over. If you show him in black and white how the numbers crunch and how its totally doable finacially, spacial wise, etc he may just agree to it. Might not be tomorrow but it might allow him to set a date to agree (like maybe say fall 2010 or something) so it has time to set in and he doesn't feel pressured to do this yesterday. Good luck!
RIP James. I love you!!


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Tue, 12-22-2009 - 9:44pm
Well, actually the things holding him back aren't quite so black and white.
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Wed, 12-23-2009 - 9:16am

Welcome to the board! I'm sorry you're having such a hard time with wanting another, and I don't blame you for wanting a daughter at all. DH have decided if our first and second are boys, we'll adopt a little girl, because we want a girl too.

I hope you can work it out... meanwhile stick around with us, we understand!

My name is Becki, I'm 24 and Paul and I are WTT our first. We're hoping for next summer/early fall.



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Sun, 12-27-2009 - 2:54am

Hi, I am a lurker here.


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