Is this just to be Passive Aggressive?
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|Mon, 04-29-2013 - 1:53pm|
Dating my bf for five wonderful months. My girls are starting to warm up to him and I think that I could bond with his little girl, but her mom is driving me nuts! Their divorce was six years ago. My bf got screwed over in the custody hearing because he has attention deficit disorder and generalized anxiety. BioMom and her lawyer chose the most random things to question him about so he got confused and nervous. In the end, he got EOW, one overnight stay on a school night, and one homework & dinner session on a school night, plus half of the holidays. My problem with her is that he and I have our kids on alternate weekends and she won't switch her weekends so that he and I can spend some time alone. We always have either my kids or his kid. My custody agreement has a "morality clause" that I can't have a bf sleep over when my girls are with me. My bf didn't require this of his ex, but he is living with his brother & SIL right now and the SIL won't let me sleep over because she says it sets a bad example for her kids (who are 2 and 3!)
What can I do to force her to change weekends?