being grandparents sometimes is really hard

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Registered: 12-17-2004
being grandparents sometimes is really hard
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Sat, 11-26-2011 - 8:52pm

We have a 22 yr old dd who is separated from her husband for the second time.

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Registered: 11-29-2011
Tue, 11-29-2011 - 1:20pm
I think it is probably time that you draw a line on her coming back. You want to be there for your kids, and want a stable life for your grandkids, but at some point she needs to learn to stand on her own. It's too much on you and your husband to have to totally disrupt your lives like that, especially if she isn't helping to take care of the house and cooking. Her kids do need a stable life. I hope she isn't switching schools on them constantly?
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Registered: 12-17-2004
Wed, 11-30-2011 - 12:49pm

Thanks everyone for the replies.