Boy, have I got some news!

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Boy, have I got some news!
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Sat, 05-01-2010 - 2:35pm

T came home from Seattle and started changing his clothes into dress-up clothes, rather than his work duds. I kept asking them where they were going and never got a straight answer outta either one of them. So finally g/f tells me they are going out w/some friends that T works with. And they took the baby.

When they returned home, T tells me that there w/be a reception later on. They went & got married!!! At the court house. They said there were tons of couples there last night doing the same thing. And the "friends" they were meeting up with were 2 people from Pizza Hut who were the witnesses.

She said they kept it a secret b-cuz they didn't want me to feel left out, not being invited. I didn't. I'm fine w/it but I told her "How could you spend all day w/me and NOT tell me?" She said it was hard.

I've got some more news: my dd called my older sister, (the one who has ostracized herself from the family and is in complete denial as to what she did to my mother), for using her as her release from the prison. And my sister said yes. It was my dd's last resort. And get this...my sister told dd that she had always wanted to help her but that I wouldn't let her. Huh? When was this? I mean even when we were on speaking terms, never did I get any gist of her offering to help me w/my dd. She's nutzo and my dd is about to find out just how insane she is.

And that's the news from the Pacific Northwest!
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Sun, 05-02-2010 - 1:32am

Congratulations to the Happy Couple!!


Kathy

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Sun, 05-02-2010 - 8:54pm

Wow!!!! Congratulations to T!!!!!!!! I guess you could say you have news. Anything else going on? When is the reception & yes like Kathy I want to hear the specifics on your dd living w/your sister. This should be very intersting. Bet your sis thinks she can perform a miracle & do what you couldn't do for yrs. Opps, I forgot, it was all your fault your dd is in jail again & has done a good amount of drugs for most of her adult life. Lets not forget its also your fault you raised your dgs, bet you raised him cause you just wanted a boy right? I was told that a couple of weeks ago. I always wanted a girl so....

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Mon, 05-03-2010 - 11:55am

Heading spinning much?


WOW!

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Mon, 05-03-2010 - 6:40pm

When I married my present dh we didn't invite anyone either.

Fran

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Tue, 05-04-2010 - 9:13am

Fran, the next time I take words out of your moth, would you please not bite me?

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Tue, 05-04-2010 - 7:52pm
Boy when you have news you have NEWS!!! Okay, congratulations to the newly weds!! Hey, at least now they are married! And, they are in love, so good for them. They are doing good.
As for your DD?? Hey, she is going to be what she is. And, if your sister is going to help her. Then your sister is going to end up with a whole lot of trouble. Or if we pray really hard. Maybe your daughter will clean up, and go straight. What ever happens you are a great mom and that's all that matters.
Love you woman!!

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Wed, 05-05-2010 - 12:54pm

I got a call from a niece yesterday...my sister's oldest dd. Since we don't speak, she had her dd call me. They are wondering if having MY dd move in w/be be a bad move. I had to laugh. (Like, duh, why do ya think she's not coming here?) But I didn't want to paint such a bad picture that makes dd start begging me again so I was semi-helpful. Their main concern was, will dd steal drugs from her aunt? meaning pain pills. But that's not likely since dd w/be randomly drug tested when she's on probation. I don't think dd wants to go directly back to jail...nope no monopoly game there!

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Wed, 05-05-2010 - 7:21pm
I for one think you did the right thing. You let them know exactly what they needed to know. And, no more. Your right they did want to know if there was a really good reason why DD shouldn't go to be with their mom. And, I know how you feel about not wanting her to live back with you. I do have one like that. I am raising her son too. And, DD won't be getting into drugs until after she gets off her probation. If she does then. We'll just pray for the best for you, and her.

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Sat, 05-08-2010 - 11:34am
Is she looking for a way for your sister to back out without it being her fault?!
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Sat, 05-08-2010 - 4:12pm

OMG, you could be on to something there! I wouldn't put it past her to do just that! And my dd would probably believe her. Family! Ugh! I wish we could choose family like we can friends!

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