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Fri, 10-29-2010 - 8:13am

ODD called again yesterday and I was so upset I was crying I made a lot of calls and then walked over and talk with a dear friend to get calmed down before calling her back. She was freaked out and got me freaked out and

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Fri, 10-29-2010 - 2:39pm

Oh wow....this is quite the predicament!

 

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Fri, 10-29-2010 - 6:02pm

ODD turned 23 this month, so is of age she is concidered an adult by law. I think want worries me most is they are homeless, neither of them are working, so under the lews of that state they can't provide basic needs. She told me if she were to leave his parents would kick him out the only reason they have a place to live is she is preg. Well lets see he's a 20 yr old boy and he's not sure what to think or do. His parents are riding his but about a job. They are in a small town.

She will not sing those kinds of papers at least not in her right mind. I really on;t think she would

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Fri, 10-29-2010 - 6:40pm

Well, she hasnt even had the baby yet.

Kathy
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Fri, 10-29-2010 - 6:57pm

" She told me if she were to leave his parents would kick him out the only reason they have a place to live is she is preg"

So in other words, as soon as the baby is born, they're booted out?

 

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Fri, 10-29-2010 - 8:17pm

I'm so worried but she will do what she wants to do.

We would raise another child and will do so if it comes down to it. We have just told her we wouldn't to try and get her to take and keep taking the BC.

I do worry if someone else would try and step in. We do have a very good plan that we will put into to place if needed to get the baby in our care.

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Fri, 10-29-2010 - 8:25pm

Yes you can get food and medical from the state but you have to have a stable living conditions, and be able to provide basic needs so that would be things like clean clothes, diapers, and that kind of thing. Yea from what I'm getting they will be getting the boot once the baby is born if he hasn't gotten a job.

Yes we did say we didn't want to raise another one. Didn't we say that about the first one???? DGS deserves to know his sibiling.