Stopped by ds's house yesterday
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|Sun, 04-25-2010 - 9:23am|
I have never just dropped in but they had told us that we go to my dads house all the time but never drop in. They just drop in here often. First words were we're on our way out. That was fine we had just dropped in anyhow, that was from ds. Dil on the other hand very coldly said we're on our way out & we are late so we're leaving now. I did get to see the new babies room & I asked where they were heading. Was that ok? They were going to her aunts for her moms birthday & thanks to my ds they were late. They are never on time for anything which is why we always tell them something is an hr. earlier then it actually is.
I mentioned that April is a very busy month & dil asked why. I told her lots of bdays & other things in April. Our anniversary is this week married 24 yrs. & she never asked what day or commented.
There 5 minutes & left I know we didn't hold them up because dgd's stuffed animal she takes everywhere w/her had to be found & dh never left the car, ds went out to talk to him.
On a bright note dgd saw me & ran to me calling granma & threw her arms up to be picked up. Guess I won't need to ask to hold her ever again (not that I ever did, no matter what dil told me), it was great that she wanted to be w/me. Dil came up to her & reminded her that she wanted to leave all day & was excited to go.
For some reason dil has been very angry w/us & I haven't a clue why. I think about all the few times we've been w/them & can't think of a thing that could be wrong. I have to figure she's in another one of her moods & I'm the target. Its just so hurtful & she doesn't let anything go by she pounces on every little thing. Ds said she has issues w/me but won't say what. I mind my own business only call to ask how she is feeling about once a month & and the phone calls are only about 2 minutes long if that. I'm afraind to say anything to her because she always takes everything wrong. She had no problem to call & ask me about dgd's dance recital & how many tickets I needed. They are however angry that dh may not go because the drs. want him out of crowds for a while longer.
Just needed to vent I don't know why she's like she is when we are all they had when they had no one & we supported them both finacially & emotionally. We never remind them that they owe us money & are always nice when they pop into our house.
Any advice on what to do?