We did it

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We did it
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Mon, 11-16-2009 - 10:42am

We told ODD that she had to get out after another incident. DH gave her $20. so she had a little money. She was very upset and angry when she left. DGS has only asked once about Mommy, we told him she went with *** and

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Tue, 11-17-2009 - 1:07am

Well if that isn't tough love....!


Kathy

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Tue, 11-17-2009 - 8:41am

I know that must have been hard on you but it sometimes is the only choice we have, the dgc or the parent. The kids have to come 1st because they can't fend for themselves & have been put in an impossible situation. It will all work out & maybe she'll see the light when she runs out of people who will support her & take her in. She is trying to make you worry & scare you its her one way of getting back into your house.


I'm happy ydd is doing ok & has gotten the job she wanted. It does so much for their self esteem when this happens.

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Tue, 11-17-2009 - 11:47pm

We don't expect to hear from her untill she has no place to go. We will not let her back in this house. We have decided to change what we were doing for her for Christmas. She will be getting a gift card, if she blows it on junk that will be on her. This way she will be able to buy some