What is going on...............

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What is going on...............
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Tue, 12-07-2010 - 12:12pm

We gave the kids 2 weeks to get a workable plan to get jobs and how they planned to get on their feet.So DD's BF picked up the phone and called the man he thinks is his biodad and had him come to get them.

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Tue, 12-07-2010 - 2:36pm

So he just upped and left her?

 

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Wed, 12-08-2010 - 7:48am

His leaving gives her time to think & if he left because he didn't want to make a pla to work & get a place of their own she has alot to think about. I hope she is doing that. If he left now he leave whenever.

Has he contacted her since he left? It gets so tiring after awhile.

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Wed, 12-08-2010 - 9:09am

She has a lot to think about and his up and leaving and unwillingness to work on making a plan has her very upset and mad. His mom told me that when things get tough he runs and he did. He wanted us to find him a job and that wasn't going to happen. he didnt; cal the job service places every day, he didn't call the other place every day. He didn't want to call the places that he put in apps.

As far asher staying here well this is not a bad thing as we will make sure that she gets medical care. If she go into a deep depression we know how to deal with it and will not have to drive 5 hours to get to her. I don't think this will be the end but we are ready for the fight if they bring it.

He hasn't called or tried to contact her since he left. I'm not sure if this is just him or if they are trying to find out how to deal with his signing the papers he signed before he left. He had better call soon as his car is sitting here and he needs to get it out of here. I'm not sure why they didn't just rent a tow bar and take it when they left, but hey who knows.

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Sun, 12-12-2010 - 11:13pm

Wow, it never ends, does it.

Kathy
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Mon, 12-13-2010 - 11:56am

After he left she said this is how they ended up in another state. He made the calls and she went with him. It's been a week and he hasn't called. She is much more relaxed and talking about things. We have decided that we are getting her a few things for Christmas, mostly covering needs. DGS will not understand if Mommy doesn't get anything, and it's not fair since BF took off.

Her GF called this week and talked to YDD since YDD got engaged and hadn't called ODD's GF. The GF wants to know when the baby will get here so she can take off and come up here.

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Thu, 12-16-2010 - 7:40am

Has your dd heard from him yet? How are things going?

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Thu, 12-16-2010 - 8:56am

Still no word from the boyfriend, and since he broke up with her over facebook he deleted her from his friends list. What a guy.....

She has been ok she has her moods but she is trying at least. We'll see how things go during and

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Thu, 12-16-2010 - 10:24pm

Squeaky is ydd still getting the headaches? Don't forget to let us know about both appts 7 in the meantime I'll say a few prayers for both your girls.

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Fri, 12-17-2010 - 9:42am

The headache has never gone away and there are times it's even more intense. It's why we are doing the home schooling with her.

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Sun, 12-19-2010 - 9:39am

I missed alot of that I didn't know you were homeschool. How do you find the time? I'm inspired by you. I hope & pray her MRI turns out well.

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