Being a target

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Registered: 02-18-2010
Being a target
Sun, 02-21-2010 - 1:46am

Hi - I am fairly new here.

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Registered: 12-12-2007
Mon, 02-22-2010 - 1:52pm

I know what you mean that it can build and build!!!

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Registered: 08-09-2007
Thu, 02-25-2010 - 1:39pm

I feel you. BM doesn't like anything I do especially if it's nice things. I always wondered why. She's gotten worse since DH and I had DS. She doesn't mind using me as a babysitter but she found out I took my DD and DSD to buy shoes and flipped out. (So, next time I'll drop off DSD at the curb and go buy my kid shoes, yeah, no.)

I did learn to never send anything home with DSD that involves me. One time we made brownies and BM was there to pick up DSD early so DSD didn't get a chance to have any, I sent some home and DH got a complaint email that DSD got the brownies all over her car. Yes, that was my fault.

I think it hurts when someone you've never done anything to hates you for no apparent reason. It doesn't make sense. Best advice I can give you? Grow thick skin and keep being good to your SK's.

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Registered: 01-10-2004
Thu, 02-25-2010 - 1:54pm

I'm sorry you're having a difficult time after all these years.

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